If you or a teen you know is in an unhealthy relationship, use these strategies:

"In Love and In Danger: A Teen's Guide to Breaking Free" and "Dreamland" by Sarah Dessen are often cited for their realistic portrayals of these dynamics. A Teen's Guide To Breaking Free of Abusive Relationships

Discuss specific behaviors you’ve noticed using "I" statements (e.g., "I feel concerned when I see [X behavior]") rather than attacking the partner's character.

Demanding passwords, checking phone history, or pressuring a partner for explicit photos.