Attraction: Isn't A Choice

At its heart, this idea argues that you cannot "logically convince" someone to feel attraction for you through debate, lists of your good qualities, or sheer persistence.

Intense infatuation can be driven by a chemical cocktail of dopamine, norepinephrine (arousal/alertness), and a drop in serotonin (which leads to obsessive thoughts ). Attraction Isn't A Choice

A person might logically know someone is a "great catch" (kind, stable, wealthy) but still feel zero "spark". Why This Principle Is Useful At its heart, this idea argues that you

Realizing it’s not always a personal failure, but often a lack of biological "fit" between two unique people. At its heart